Your girlfriend is mad at you & you don’t know why? Why is she acting passive aggressive?
Or maybe you just think she is mad but you are afraid to ask because this would awaken the beast. You decide to ignore and hope this phase passes away. Well, that will only make her madder!
Also, you’ve been noticing that this happens way too often. You send her a good morning text with a kiss but she replies with a plain “Morning!” or texts you that she is going to bed early, like at 8 pm. When you do ask her what’s wrong? She replies with a “Kuch Nahi” text. And you wonder what’s bothering her? Is it something you did or is something else troubling her? Sometimes you shrug it off thinking she must be pmsing! Well, Don’t!
She is probably mad because you gave her a reason to and you are unaware of it. You may ponder- Why isn’t she telling me? Because she doesn’t want to seem needy & clingy.
Let me open the gates to the secret world of real emotions & overthinking for you guys! Here are a few things you may be doing that pester her:
Taking Too Long To Reply
She understands that you are busy, but not replying to her texts is not right. It has been 2 hours since she texted you, she posts a picture on Instagram & you double tap. You still haven’t replied to her texts, but you got time to be on scroll your Instagram feed? Or maybe you have been online for 5 mins over WhatsApp, but you haven’t replied or seen her texts. Well, she will be a little mad!
Saying That You Will Call Her But Don’t
Do not do it! I repeat do not do it!
You say that you’ll call her in the evening or maybe at night but then you didn’t. You decide to strike a conversation over text messages and wonder why she is sending you one-word replies. Maybe you forgot or are too tired to call her, but you have to let her know. This will not only make her mad but make her overthink things. Girls care more about this stuff than guys!
Forgot To Delete Your Tinder
Do you seriously need a reason for that? You have tinder in your phone, maybe not an account but the app is still there, and there is no justification for that! You may have forgotten to delete it, but you are dead meat! She may forgive you, but she won’t stop thinking about it. How would you feel if she has the app on her phone?
Praising Your Ex or For That Matter Any Other Girl
You definitely can praise other girls, but don’t overdo it! If she is spending the weekend with you, you’re allowed to talk about how great some other girl is just 3 times! Don’t do it again otherwise, she will start to think that you don’t appreciate her or are comparing her.
Warning: Don’t praise your ex-girlfriend AT ALL!
Taking The Blanket But Not Cover Her Up
You are sleeping next to her, you wake up at night because you were feeling cold so you take the blanket and cover yourself, but not her! Do you think that is the right thing to do? If you’re feeling cold, then she must have been cold too! Now when she wakes up feeling cold, she will see that you have hogged the entire blanket and will end up laying in the bed cold. She will definitely be all grumpy in the next day!
Inappropriate Replies To Heartfelt Texts
When she writes a long heartfelt message for you and pour her heart out or maybe she sent you a song, you are supposed to reply with affinity. When you reply with an Okay, I see, Acha or Say that is great & change the topic to something like “Did you see the trailer to that movie?”
You definitely are making her mad! You may have understood, and absorbed her emotions but she needs to know that you appreciate it. It took a lot of effort for her to write something special for you, value it!
When You Do Not Tell Her What’s Wrong
Being in a relationship with someone means you can share all your problems with them truthfully. Guys tend to keep their problems to themselves and take time opening up which is okay! But, you got to start sharing things with her. She shares all her problems with you and expects nothing less in return. When you go all tough & hide your problems, she feels like you don’t trust her enough.
Open Up With Her!
When You Make Plans & Forget
So, you told her that you will take her out to this Thai Restaurant next week for a date, but you forget! You may have forgotten, but she didn’t. She probably canceled her plans for Saturday, took a half day & thought of the dress she would be wearing on the date. Don’t say it if you won’t be doing it!
Not Asking Her “What’s Wrong?”
She texted you Good Night early saying that she is tired, and you’re like Okay! She wants you to ask her what’s wrong! Be a little sensitive!
Using Your Phone When She Is Sleeping Next To You
You are supposed to be cuddling not scroll through your Facebook feed or play a game! She feels less desirable and unwanted. So, keep your phone aside and hold her.
Joking About Dating With Her Friend
Never Do It! You may have a small crush on your girlfriend’s friend, but you are not supposed to act on it. You are not supposed to joke about it either. You may jokingly ask “What if I dated your friend?” She may act casual, but she definitely will be fuming inside!
“I Am With A Friend”
You tell her that you’re out with a friend but don’t tell her who is it. She is going to be a little upset. We girls wouldn’t get mad even if you’re out with a girl, but not naming them makes her think “why?”
Refuse To Tell Her About Your Past
It is possible that you are not comfortable talking about your past, but after a while in the relationship, you should be comfortable sharing things with her. She may respect your privacy and not ask you about you ought to tell her someday. Being weird about this stuff would make her upset. She wants you to trust her!
Are You PMSING?
Do not ask her that! Maybe she is, maybe she isn’t! When you ask this question, she is definitely going to be furious.
Well, these are the few innocent things you are doing which make her mad. You might not even know & feel these things are absolutely normal, but to her, it’s not. She would forgive for things like forgetting her birthday, but these little things you do may make her feel neglected & ignored. You need to be more considerate even if she’s acting crazy, after all, you love her!