The claim to fame of Sushmita Sen is the moment she was crowned “Miss Universe” in the year 1994. It was India’s first win in that category and easily she won the hearts of millions. With a dazzling smile and confident answers – she slayed Manila and that moment is still fresh in the mind of her fans. Her stint in the movie industry has been short because Bollywood could never bring scripts in her time that would do full justice to her personality.
She has a fierce personality mixed with elegance. This combination is hard to find among actresses that Bollywood sees generally. Be it her public speaking capabilities or her way of living – she has always set examples that every woman aspires to become. She is more than beauty – she is a lot of brain with grace. Once you have liked her, nothing is stopping you from getting inspired by her.
Reasons why she will always remain an inspiration to us:
You become a Mom out of Love & Care:
She had to struggle a lot to gain motherhood. The authorities questioned her single status and her “star or celebrity”. But she proved everyone wrong by being a doting mother to two beautiful kids. Her work and personal life balance are blissful and one can gauge that from her social media posts or her public appearances with her kids. She is an inspiration to all those women who don’t want to fall into marriage and still enjoy motherhood. Motherhood is pure love and with her life, she proves that one just needs to carry a loving and caring heart to become a mom.
Marriage can take a Backseat:
At the beginning of this year, one of her Instagram posts read- “Whoever invented marriage was creepy as hell. Like I love you so much I’m gonna get the government involved so you can’t leave”. Isn’t that a wonderful post? Sush is clearly that “new-age” woman who doesn’t need a marriage to define her. She is 43 and still not married and yet she is a woman of substance. What else do you need? She inspires all the ladies that “go out and fulfill your dreams and desires and if you don’t want to marry in that process, that’s okay”.
A Strong Woman of Words:
Sush is definitely a woman of her words. During the Miss Universe Pageant in Manila in 1994, one of the questions was: “if you have lots of money, where would you invest?” The intelligent yet benevolent Sush responded, “I will love to invest in children, take care of children, or do something for them because children bring out the best in you and give peace”. You can see how beautifully she is living up to her words!
Fearless Expression of Love:
There is an attitude given to love and romance in Bollywood. People in Bollywood tend to hide their love stories from the media or the general audience. Some would argue and say that “it’s their personal life, they should protect it”. But there is a difference between “privacy” and “denial”. Sushmita Sen never walked that road of denying her multiple love affairs. In her interviews to print media or during various TV shows, she fearlessly accepted who she is dating because she is a fearless woman. And that’s how it should be- isn’t it? It’s a good thing to be in love and when you are in a relationship, you should have the courage to accept that publicly.
Age is No Bar in Romance
Our society has a weird logic. It says that in a romantic or marital relationship, the guy should be older than the girl. The age difference is not spoken that loud in that case. Therefore, when a Dharmendra marries 14 years younger Hema Malini – it is okay. But when Amrita Singh married 12 years younger Saif Ali Khan – it became the talk of the town. Till today the majority of the people are in favor of an older guy and younger girl marriage union. Sushmita Sen, 43, didn’t marry but she is in a blissful live-in relationship with Rohman Shawl, 28. And she proves it again that – your happiness is the only thing that should matter to you and not what the society tries to impose on you.
Sushmita Sen is a brave heart and an unconventional woman. She has logic and acumen to walk the less-treaded road because that’s what makes her happy. Her whole life is like an open book and her decisions prove a point to the women of this country. She is an ever-inspirational woman who has always played well, lived an uncompromising life, and has become a role model for millions.