Commitment! It usually scares the hell out of all-male species, isn’t it right men? You may love someone deeply and the thought of them being with someone else would scare you. But when the same person talks about their future with you, you’d be scared. You would tell her that you are not sure about settling down and that you are not ready to have that talk.
If you have been dating for a really long time, it’s time to ask yourself if she is the one, the one you want for your entire life and the one you’d love forever.
This is how you know is she is one for you:
You feel comfortable around her
You don’t fear to be yourself around her. You can say whatever you wish to, and you don’t fear to be yourself around her. Of course you fight over things, but you know that she would accept all your flaws.
You’d say sorry Just to make her happy
It does not matter who is right, you’ll say sorry voluntarily. You may argue with her, telling her that she is at fault but then you’ll eventually give in for that one smile. Your heart wants her!
You want her to be there
Going out with colleagues, friends, and acquaintances is fun. Even when you’re having the best time of your life, you would want her to be there with you. It’s like you would imagine scenarios of her being next to you.
You want to be a better man for her
If she makes you want to be a better person, then she is the reason why your dopamine & oxytocin hormones peek. You want her to have the best and moreover she inspired you to be a better man. That’s right, she’s got your heart racing!
No Awkward Silences
There are no awkward silences around her. You are even comfortable being silent with her, and it doesn’t matter of it is over the phone, video call or in person. Just the essence of her is comforting enough.
You think about her while taking life decisions
You might not admit it in front, but if you find yourself thinking about her before taking a life decision, then she is definitely the one. It could about changing your job, buying a house, or maybe just taking a foreign trip. You would find yourself thinking about her.
You want to help her in every way you can
You want to help her at every step of her life, and it is not because she is your girlfriend. If she is stuck somewhere in her career, you’d want to help her. If she is stuck with a family problem, you would want to help her. If she is having health issues, you would find yourself looking for solutions.
She compromises for you & You are willing to do the same for her
Everyone wants a partner who would is willing to adjust and make things work. If she is the one who makes compromises to make you happy, and you wish to do the same. She is a keeper!
She is your best friend
When you had a bad day, she makes you feel comfortable. If you have good news, you wish to tell her right away. And you know, no matter what, she would not judge you. You feel like she is your best friend like you enjoy her company.
You can imagine your future with her
While you may not be sure if and when you want to get married, but you can imagine your future with her. The thought of having her as your partner comes easy to you.
You start missing her as soon as she leaves
Looking at her picture, reading her old text messages, and thinking about what she said, all of it makes you smile. You start to miss her, as soon as she leaves, and you often crave her presence.
Falling in love is the most beautiful feeling, and if you have found someone who is worth sticking around, make sure they know it.